The Williams family is proud to have been a mainstay along Northridge Drive. In case the time is coming when the death dates for all three are inscribed on our monument at the local cemetery, I'm putting up this post as a reminder of our extended presence. The presence has been in so many forms of community life. It just came naturally for us. Maybe I should introduce the dog first. It's "Heidi" held by my dad Ralph. "Heidi" was the second of three small family dogs that our family treasured. The first was "Misty" and the third was "Sandy" who was the biggest character of the three. Ralph made his mark as founder of UMM music. The University was the pillar of his whole adult life. At center is Mom Martha who was in charge of the UMM campus post office for so long. Dad once had Heidi accompany him to UMM to pick up Mom at the end of the work day. Heidi dashed in and Mom was not immediately aware of her presence. Then as Mom recalled, "I felt someone licking my leg." Very often it was I who picked up Mom at the end of the work day. Days long removed from us now, stored in my memory. Alas my lifespan will be finite just like everyone's. I have shared with a few people my health travails of late. Now I can share with a few more. But instead of continuing with this text I'll share my song lyrics which I wrote Friday after getting back from radiation treatment in Alexandria. (Or, as the locals tend to refer to it, "Alec," not "Alex." Curious Morris trait. "I'm going to Alec this weekend" etc. Boy, I sure am getting used to the roundabouts leading into Alec now. They don't phase me at all now. Just pay attention to the"yield" signs and you'll be fine. I have actually heard that accidents are more common at roundabouts but these are not fatal accidents, and that is the advantage. Oh, yours truly Brian Williams is at right in photo. My distance-running physique? Looks like. CHORUS:
I'LL HAVE A CHEMO CHRISTMAS
By Brian Williams
This is just another Christmas song
You might feel like giving it the gong
I request you listen to the end
I do think the time will be well spent
'Cause I have a message from my soul
Something you can cling to when you're old
Old is when the challenges can mount
Don't sit back and let them count you out
God works in ways mysterious
He has a plan, you know he does
Life gives you lemons, it's been said
Just make some lemonade and mend
I'll have a chemo Christmas
Yes I hope I'll be just fine
People can die for sure
We hope their souls endure
In the realm that offers sweet new wine
I can see the Babe at Bethlehem
So small but still the King of Men
He knew that love could vanquish all
All who thought sheer power held the call
God loves you when you're very sick
Your standing suffers not one bit
Oh, how I know it can get tough
Turn to the Lord, your odds go up
I wish best of luck to everyone
As we awaken to the sun
Let it be a symbol of resolve
Shining to help us meet the call
REPEAT CHORUS
Some people go to church for life
Mostly I did not see the light
Not with the war in Vietnam
Raging while pastors dropped the ball
Shall we just make our lemonade?
And never let your scruples fade?
As I conclude I have a quote
From Satchel Paige, the baseball bloke
"Don't look back," the legend said
Why? You might wonder, what the heck?
What you don't know might be a boon
"Something might be gaining on you"
Mom and Dad enjoying leaf-raking on the beautiful and peaceful Williams family property on Northridge Drive, Morris. "Beautiful and peaceful" meant we did have interactions with wildlife! Such is the lot of semi-rural people. Lately we have had the presence of wild turkeys! A novel and interesting sight at first. Maybe they'll multiply just as Canada geese once did, significantly. Finally the geese became "sky carp" as noted local author, the late Doug Rasmussen, proclaimed. Ben Franklin thought the turkey should be the national symbol, not the eagle. He said turkeys were industrious. Eagles are merely predators. What do you think? Our immediate neighbors on Northridge Drive are the Cihaks to the west, the Murphys to the east. I'm an old high school classmate of Rose Murphy nee Weiler. Of course I think of her as "Rose Weiler." She was a Homecoming queen candidate back in '72. We graduated in '73. The state lowered the drinking age. What a mistake. I was delighted to attend Addison Cihak's graduation reception in the spring. Now she's at UMM and will play baskeetball.And here's a few years previous! People have enjoyed seeing this photo which might have been taken during courtship. I would guess it was taken along the Gull Lake chain in north central Minnesota. Mom was a native of Brainerd. Their wedding date is inscribed on our family monument at Summit Cemetery. I chose a bench style of monument for the site. Please feel welcome to "sit a spell" there anytime!
I'm a little hesitant to use this photo because Dad could get pigeon-holed for his role with the famous UMM men's chorus. as if he was primarily connected to that. He directed the whole gamut of music in UMM's earliest days. He was the only music faculty in the institution's first year! UMM's promoters were greatly worried about whether the school could even survive in the fledgling state! Survive and thrive it did. It is seeking a rebound at present under Chancellor Michael Rodriguez. Good luck Michael! I heard someone say once that UMM was lucky to get my father when you considered his credentials and background. He directed the Apollo Male Chorus of Minneapolis in the 1950s. He also taught music at the U of M-St. Paul School of Agriculture. Remember the "school of ag" we had here in Morris? Their days came to an end. Dad was a prolific published composer. You can find church choirs performing his music on YouTube today! But always check to make sure there's no confusion between Ralph E. Williams, my dad, and "RalphVaughn Williams." Dad always used the "E." initial.
Making peace with church, maybe
I'm not 100 percent on this in the wee early hours of Friday, but I may have my name restored to the church rolls today. I do this in a highly conflicted way because I resent the role of rural MN Christian churches in being so reverential and loyal to Donald Trump and his crowd. My dismay has obviously been significant.
Why did we let this come to pass? It looks like all these "Christians" are inclined that way again with mid-terms approaching. Rural hospitals are closing because of cuts to Medicaid. Why do you all continue to vote against your interests? Maybe it's because of "trans" kids getting an apparent open door tor playing on girls and women's sports teams. To the extent that many Democrats are inclined to being sympathetic to that, I wish they'd drop it like a hot brisk, NOW. I have closely watched the growth of girls and women's sports all through the years. What a shame if so much of the success were to be washed away by such a perverse policy. But it looks possible.
Gloria Steinem was positioned as totally pro-trans in her final years. What a disappointment. As a footnote in Morris newspaper history, I'll remind how we at the paper got "taken" by the faux announcement that Steinem was scheduled to make a visit to UMM. We gave it a chunk of the front page. The announcement, as it turned out, was from some over-zealous UMM people who were engaged in wishful thinking. What? Feminists being over-zealous? Mercy. Edell Swanson did some detective work and found out there was no such intention or plan for Steinem to come here. Oh what a tangled web we weave.
My church would be the new First Lutheran/Federated partnership, which I guess does not have a new combined name. Pastor Matt is very capable if not the most flamboyant bloke. Services are being run capably and with no apparent glitches, according to what I see on YouTube. Glitches? I mean like someone starting to speak and the damn mic is either not working or not set right, or we get a loud blast of feedback as what happened with Pastor Rich once. Pastor Rich was an interim who just abruptly announced through the bulletin that he was leaving. The departure fit right in with the discouraging pattern at First Lutheran, so finally I was sick of it and quit the church. The ELCA is known as liberal but I know we have at least one openly pro-Trump family in the pews. I suppose I could name names but to heck with it. If I re-join I'll just sit quietly in back. I know Jim Thraen will be happy and relieved that I'm back! Pastor Matt is good at being non-political, kudos. But would he dare quote from Jesus' "Sermon on the Mount?" Jesus could sound a little "liberal." It has been reported that in some places, when a pastor quotes from the Sermon on the Mount, some people will literally get up and walk out of the sanctuary. Putting Donald Trump ahead of Our Savior? I guess so. Should I challenge Pastor Matt to share such quotes? I'd better not. "I am my brother's keeper?" I guess not in the rural Upper Midwest, year 2026. Another "glitch" that has typified First Lutheran has been failure of the slide system to advance properly. I walked out of a Christmas Eve service there once because of this. And I recall the notorious "New Wine Homecoming Concerts" that started ridiculously past the announced starting time. Mom, Dad and I walked out at least once because of that. Simple incompetence. I'm paying for better than that.
Final note: Please don't hold my writing or poetry/lyrics to standards of perfection at this point in time. My health issues are significant. I know there is a segment in this community that loves to throw darts at me, figuratively speaking. Find something better to do with your limited mental capacity, please.
At present the chemo and radiation treatments appear helpful, even if taking a toll (for the time being). I have radiation today (Friday) in Alexandria.
- Brian Williams, morris mn minnesota - musicstuff54@gmail.com



















